Chance favors the prepared mind. If you define what you want in life, the chance of finding what you are looking for increases significantly. The key to finding and achieving what you want in life is to concretely define what you want and more importantly figure out the person you need to become to attract those things to occur in your life. All the resources we need are made available to us at the precise moment we know what we're looking for, it's just a matter of us seeing those resources and utilizing them to get what we want. If you are committed to the search, know what you deserve in life and don't settle for less than what you want, you will almost certainly manifest what you were looking for in some form or another.
Life is constantly testing for commitment to getting what you want. If you're not pushing yourself and not constantly demanding more of yourself, expanding and learning as you go, the resources made available to you to find what you want won't become clear and you will never fully achieve what we are looking for.
Most people never get there. They're afraid or unwilling to demand enough of themselves to become the person they need to be to manifest the things they want in their life. They do nothing or take the easy road. If you do nothing or give up the search, you will lose the fight and never find what you are looking for. Struggling and suffering are an essential part of a worth living and create a deeper meaning and gratitude for the things you want most in life. They create a more fulfilling life.
Manifesting what you want in life can be done. The coincidence of favorable events occurring in your life is more than just chance, it's a result of a constant commitment to defining what you want, being open to the endless possibilities of how to achieve what you want, your willingness to become the person that attracts those possibilities, and your determination to overcome challenges.